Real days. Real people. A more flexible way.
Here When You Are helps you start where you are, do what you can, and keep going from there.
A gentle day planner for real families, different brains, changing energy, and days that don't go as expected.
14 days free, then CA$7.99 a month or CA$79.99 a year (US$5.99 or US$59.99 in the U.S.), plus tax. Cancel any time.
Today
Good morning!
You've got this.
9:14 AM
Kid 1
Mom
Kid 2
Dad
Progress looks different every day, and that's okay.
You don't have to do everything today. Just what you can.
I didn't need another calendar.
I needed something that could help when someone:
Most calendars are very good at telling you what you planned to do. I wanted something that could help with actually doing it.
A quick look at how it works, in real life.
1See today
Today
Everything that matters today, without needing to see everything else.
2Starting is sometimes the hardest part
First → Then
First
Get dressed
Then
Breakfast
Instead of figuring out the whole day, start with one thing.
3When it's time to do it, everything else can disappear
Get dressed
Steps (1/4)
One task. One screen. As much, or as little, help as you want.
4Stopping doesn't mean failing
Take a break?
Pause task
Do later
Choose something else
Sometimes you start something and can't finish it right now. It's okay. You can pause, come back, choose something else, or try again later.
5Tomorrow is still there
Move to tomorrow?
Didn't get to everything? Move this task to tomorrow and keep going.
Move to tomorrow
Keep it today
The plan can change without the whole day feeling ruined.
A helper that stands beside you while you do the thing, and needs to do a little less as you get stronger.
The help turns down as they grow.
Most apps have one setting, made for a busy adult. This one fits a five-year-old, a teenager and a parent on the same board, each with as much help as they need.
It's there in the hard minute.
Not just when you're planning. A timer that's running, the next step when someone's stuck, a way to ask for help, and, when the time runs out, a kind choice about what to do next.
It never keeps score.
No marks out of a hundred and no list of what didn't get done. What's left today simply carries over, and tomorrow is still there.
Short stories from real mornings. Every screen in them is the real app.

The focus stream
He knows what to do. He just can't hold the list in his head from the kitchen to the bathroom. The same phone, docked outside his door, holds it for him.
Read it

Steps that turn down
Two brothers, one routine. The older one needs the one line; the younger one needs the four steps under it — and then three, and then one.
Read it

A kid's own device
The checklist on the fridge works as long as they're standing beside it. An old phone, scanned once, no account — and the list comes along.
Read it
The Playground
All the little games and tools I've made with my kids, and a few my kids made themselves. Right now they're all free, and they're here for you to play with.
Start with the arcade: games for kids, made by my kids.
Made by a parent
I'm not a developer. I'm a parent who kept making little systems to help my own family through routines, starting tasks and changes of plan, and one day realized I was building a whole set of tools. Every part of Here When You Are came from a real morning in our house. It's run by me, not a company. There are no ads and no trackers, and your family's information is never sold or used to train anyone's AI.
Things will sometimes look a little odd. When they do, please tell me, and I'll fix what I can.